If…

If your emotional abilities aren’t in hand, if you don’t have self-awareness, if you are unable to manage your distressing emotions, if you can’t have empathy and effective relationships, then no matter how smart you are, you are not going to get very far.

–  Daniel Goleman

I wanted…

I wanted the influence. In the end I wasn’t very good at being a president. I looked out of the window and thought that the man cutting the lawn actually seemed to have more control over what he was doing.

– Warren G Bennis

We see…

We see what we believe…

We believe what we see.

– Anon

It’s not…

It’s not that some people have willpower and some don’t… It’s that some people are ready to change and others are not.

– James Gordon

We cannot…

We cannot wait for great visions from great people, for they are in short supply. It is up to us to light our own small fires in the darkness.

– Charles Handy

You are…

You are educated.

Your certification is in your degree.

You may think of it as the ticket to the good life.

Let me ask you to think of an alternative.

Think of it as your ticket to change the world.

– Tom Brokaw

You…

You may not be able to change a situation, but with humour you can change your attitude about it.

– Allen Klein

All blame…

All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for… reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration.

– Casey Stengel

We are…

We are taught you must blame your father, your sisters, your brothers, the school, the teachers – but never blame yourself. It’s never your fault. But it’s always your fault, because if you wanted to change you’re the one who has got to change.

–  Katharine Hepburn

So many…

So many people live within unhappy circumstances and yet will not take the initiative to change their situation because they are conditioned to a life of security, conformity, and conservation, all of which may appear to give one peace of mind, but in reality, nothing is more damaging to the adventurous spirit.

– Christopher McCandless